Father Separation Anxiety Among Children in Isolation
The Role of the Chaplain as a Father-Substitute in a Children’s Hospital Isolation Unit

by Canon Jim Irvine

 

 

Introduction

The Child’s Needs

Jean Vanier: a tiny child needs…

The Parental and Paternal role

The child’s identification with the paternal figure

Problems arising out of paternal, absence

The child’s self-image

Jean Vanier: that look… that hand… calls forth

The child’s acceptance

Jean Vanier: the person in misery does not need a look that

Anxiety and traumatic experiences

Flight from, and return to, reality

Treatment: Relationship Therapy, Play Therapy

Jean Vanier: how then to approach the miserable child

Development

Jean Vanier: to evolve life does need security

The Chaplain as father, and conclusion

Bibliography

 

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A paper submitted by the Rev. Canon Jim Irvine as partial requirement for certification with the
Institute of Pastoral Training, Halifax, Nova Scotia, leading to the Master’s degree in Sacred Theology.

Reflections by Jean Vanier from Tears of Silence, published by Griffin House: Toronto © 1970